17 years gay

He hasn't presented you with that so I suggest that you make peace with his choice because more than anything in this world I am sure that your son needs your support and love. It is during the teen years that most boys and girls begin to take a closer look at their sexual orientation.

Should I take him to a therapist? Perhaps he would like to join a support group. They, too, need help getting out of complicated relationships and negotiating all of the tricky aspects of relationships. Please try not to be in panic mode. Music. I suggest that you and your husband talk to your son during a calm moment and ask him how he is coping with being a gay teen.

There are no other gays in our family as far as I know. The conversation with gay teens does not end after an acceptance of their sexual choices. I have spoken to my husband about this. Could my son just have said this because he was angry at me and wanted to upset me?

It is highly unlikely that your son told you that he is gay simply to upset you. And, it sounds like you have that to offer him. My husband seems fine with this. It is probably more likely that he has known that he is gay for some time. Breathe deeply as I tell you what I think.

My year-old son and I got into a bit of a heated argument this weekend and in the midst of it my son said he's gay. First and foremost you need to sit down, regroup, and take several deep breaths. If things get difficult for you perhaps you can get some emotional support as well.

The process of declaring a homosexual identity is often called ‘coming out’. My husband says that he has always thought that our son is gay and that if he's gay, he's gay. If he told you that he was heterosexual would you wonder if it was a phase? I was so shocked that I ignored his comment and ended the argument.

From awkward confessions to sweet gestures, you'll be smiling from ear to ear as you watch these school boys take the leap of love. I am aware that you probably wanted your son's life to be as conventional and easy as possible. It is also unlikely that your son is going through a phase.

If he is experiencing any teasing, bullying , or anguish then you should offer him the opportunity to see a therapist to get support. This page provides clear and supportive homosexuality facts for teens to help you make sense of your feelings, learn about sexual orientation, and find trusted resources.

Should I have another conversation with him about this? Also, please keep in mind that gay teens need the opportunity to talk to their parents about relationship issues just as straight kids do. It can start: with homosexual fantasies or dreams; when a person realizes she is attracted to someone of the same gender; with a feeling that she is different from her friends and classmates; or with a sexual experience.

That's a term used to describe a person's physical and romantic attraction to other. Understanding your identity is an important part of growing up. Posted March 24, Reviewed by Ekua Hagan. I am beside myself. Gay kids often tell their parents about their sexuality in the middle of a fight because they feel that they have nothing left to lose since you are already upset with them.

I feel differently. Or, maybe he's just going through a phase. To find a therapist, please visit the Psychology Today Therapy Directory. So, sit back, relax, and enjoy the laughs and feels! How will I know if my teen is gay? I highly recommend that.